While You Were Dating

5.8/10 · 740 ratings20171h 24mValentine's DayWeirdness 2/10Bingo card

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The premise

A divorced couple meet online and end up going on a blind date together. After an awkward reunion, they decide to set each other up with their friends, but old habits never quite die.

How unusual is it?

Mostly classic comfort-watch, give or take a second-chance romance.

Who’s in it

Behind the camera

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Wait, what?

The quirks and curveballs that make this one a little weirder than your average Hallmark. No spoilers, promise.

  • The couple was married and divorced 16 years ago but didn't recognize each other's writing style or interests after 15 days of chatting.
  • Nick's date Elsa speaks almost exclusively in inspirational clichés.
  • The 'Cakes Etc.' rival bakery is portrayed as a 'ruthless' corporate entity for selling cronuts.
  • Nick calls a chiropractor a 'bone-cracker' as a high-stakes insult.

Every trope, all in one place

Here’s everything this one has going on, from the setting to the way it wraps up. Tap any of the 28 to find more movies that do the same thing.

How it all plays out

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Full story (spoilers)
The film opens by introducing Nick, a successful developer living in a high-rise, and Julia, the owner of 'Danny’s Confections,' a struggling but sentimental bakery. Both are single and feeling pressured by friends to date. They begin an anonymous 15-day correspondence on a photography website, where Nick uses the handle 'Picture This' and Julia uses 'Say Cheese.' When they finally meet at Angelo’s—their old favorite Italian haunt—they are shocked to discover they are ex-spouses who divorced 16 years prior. Angelo, the exuberant owner, assumes they are reconciling and forces them into a nostalgic dinner. To prove they have moved on, they strike a deal to set each other up on blind dates. Nick sets Julia up with his realtor, Logan, who spends the entire date critiquing the real estate value of her apartment before leaving for a business call. Julia sets Nick up with her friend Leslie, but the date is equally shallow. Following these failures, the two begin spending more time together. They end up accidentally locked on a rooftop overnight while chasing the perfect moon photo, leading to a confrontation about why their marriage failed—specifically Julia's move to Paris for a chef job and Nick's refusal to follow. Nick eventually offers to help Julia remodel her bakery to help her compete with 'Cakes Etc.,' a ruthless corporate rival. The tension increases when Julia's more recent ex, Dylan (a chiropractor), returns from Malibu to win her back, and Nick begins dating Elsa, a yoga instructor who puts him on a strict 'lacto-vegetarian' diet. The conflict peaks during a disastrous double date where Nick and Dylan trade insults, and Nick mocks Dylan's profession as a 'bone-cracker.' Eventually, Elsa realizes Nick is still in love with Julia and ends their relationship. Julia also realizes her rekindled romance with Dylan is a mistake. On Valentine's Day, Nick visits Julia at her newly remodeled bakery with a snow globe from a mini-mart, echoing a sentimental gift from their past. They confess their enduring love and decide that 'the original is best,' finally reconciling for good.

Beat by beat

  1. Opening

    Nick and Julia connect anonymously on a photo-sharing site, unaware they are ex-spouses.

  2. Inciting Incident

    The two meet at Angelo's for their blind date and realize they were married 16 years ago.

  3. Midpoint

    After setting each other up on disastrous dates, they get locked on a rooftop together overnight, forcing them to confront their past.

  4. Complication

    Julia's ex Dylan returns to win her back, while Nick starts dating Elsa, a yoga instructor.

  5. Climax

    A tense double date leads to an argument where Nick and Julia's lingering feelings cause a blow-up with their current partners.

  6. Resolution

    On Valentine's Day, Nick and Julia confess their love at the bakery and decide to give their relationship a second chance.

28 tropes in one movie

We counted 28 distinct Hallmark tropes packed into this one — a genuine greatest-hits reel.

How it stacks up

Where this one’s rating lands against every other rated Hallmark movie.

Rating 5.8 vs every rated Hallmark moviemedian 6.4This movie · 5.8567

Among the lower-rated Hallmark movies — the median is 6.4.

Where this one fits

The corners of the catalog While You Were Dating belongs to — handy if you’re after more of the same.

Lines worth quoting

The lines that stuck with us — the ones you’ll be repeating after the credits roll.

  • “Snow globes were like life, prettiest when they're turned upside-down.”
    — NickExplaining why he bought Julia a snow globe instead of flowers.
  • “Sometimes the original's best.”
    — NickUsing a photography metaphor to tell Julia he wants her back.
  • “I'm afraid I'm in the girlfriend zone.”
    — NickRealizing Julia is treating him like a platonic friend while dating Dylan.

Meet the characters

Who’s who before you press play. Nothing here gives the ending away.

  • Julia

    Lead

    Bakery Owner

    SentimentalTalentedStubbornArtistic
  • Nick

    Love interest

    Real Estate Developer/Architect

    Ex-husband

    NostalgicPracticalCompetitiveKind
  • Dylan

    Antagonist

    Chiropractor

    Recent ex-boyfriend

    PersistentArrogantHealth-conscious
  • Elsa

    Supporting

    Yoga Instructor

    Nick's short-term date

    Cliché-proneIntenseVegan
  • Kim & Kyle

    Supporting

    Friends

    Mutual best friends

    MatchmakersLoyal

Questions people ask about While You Were Dating

Where can I watch While You Were Dating?

While You Were Dating is available via fuboTV, Philo, and Hallmark+ Amazon Channel. Streaming options change often, so check current availability before settling in.

How long is While You Were Dating?

While You Were Dating runs about 1 hour and 24 minutes, and was released in 2017.

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