Be My Valentine

5.8/10 · 913 ratings20131h 23mValentine's DayWeirdness 3/10Bingo card

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The premise

When Kates flower shop has a small fire she meets Dan, the towns fire chief. Dan is a widower and lone father to Tyler. Over time Kate and Dan starts to date and romance is in the air. But then Kates former boy friend turns up having regretted that he left Kate. At the same time Tyler falls in love with Rebecca at school and seeks his fathers advice in love matters.

How unusual is it?

Honestly? Not very — and that's the charm. It plays the hits, which is exactly the point for a cozy night in.

Who’s in it

Behind the camera

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Wait, what?

The quirks and curveballs that make this one a little weirder than your average Hallmark. No spoilers, promise.

  • The 'Love God' auction costume described as 'Cupid meets Hercules'.
  • A 12-year-old boy giving sophisticated dating advice to his adult father.
  • Kate justifying a $5,000 date bid by citing her 1997 Apple stock investment.
  • The fire lieutenant's 'romantic' slogan: 'Show her you love her on Valentine's Day: change the battery in her smoke detector.'

Every trope, all in one place

Here’s everything this one has going on, from the setting to the way it wraps up. Tap any of the 29 to find more movies that do the same thing.

How it all plays out

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Full story (spoilers)
The film opens with a fire at a flower shop owned by Wendy Clark and Kate Burlingham. Fire Lieutenant Dan Farrell, a widower of several years, responds to the scene. While the shop suffers no structural damage, the compressor fire forces them to close for repairs during the peak Valentine's Day season. Dan, who is organizing the annual Firefighters' Ball to raise money for a scholarship fund, later runs into Kate at a grocery store. Kate, an MBA graduate who left the corporate world to follow her passion for flowers, offers to help Dan with the ball's decorations as a contribution to the cause. As they spend time together, they discover a mutual love for softball, leading to a 'batting practice date' where Dan officially asks Kate to the ball. Meanwhile, Dan's 12-year-old son Tyler navigates his first crush on Rebecca, the daughter of a paramedic. Tyler struggles with jealousy after seeing Rebecca with another boy at the mall, but eventually reconciles with her after learning that 'fighting for love' is part of the process. The central conflict intensifies when Kate's ex-boyfriend, Gavin Malone, arrives from Los Angeles and proposes to her with a large diamond ring. Gavin admits he made a mistake leaving her five months prior. Feeling like he cannot compete with Kate's long history with Gavin, Dan decides to step aside, telling Kate he doesn't want to complicate her decision. However, a life-threatening experience during a hotel fire—where Dan's oxygen mask malfunctions—gives him a new perspective on life and love. He leaves a heartfelt voicemail for Kate saying he wants to 'fight for her,' though he immediately deletes it out of insecurity. On the night of the ball, Tyler and the other firefighters conspire to get Dan on the auction block after the scheduled 'prize,' Michael, feigns illness. Kate, having realized that her future lies with Dan rather than Gavin, arrives at the ball. She engages in a bidding war with Joey's sister, ultimately winning a date with Dan for $5,000, which she explains she can afford because she bought Apple stock in 1997. The film concludes with Dan and Kate dancing at the ball, finally united.

Beat by beat

  1. Opening

    Dan Farrell responds to a fire at Kate's flower shop, establishing their initial connection.

  2. Inciting Incident

    Kate offers to provide floral arrangements for the Firefighters' Ball, leading to them spending time together.

  3. Midpoint

    Kate's ex-boyfriend Gavin returns from LA and proposes, creating a romantic triangle.

  4. Complication

    Dan withdraws from the relationship to let Kate decide her future, while Tyler deals with his own jealousy issues with Rebecca.

  5. Climax

    Dan survives a mask malfunction in a fire, prompting him to realize he needs to fight for Kate.

  6. Resolution

    Kate outbids everyone at the bachelor auction to win a date with Dan, choosing him over Gavin.

29 tropes in one movie

We counted 29 distinct Hallmark tropes packed into this one — a genuine greatest-hits reel.

How it stacks up

Where this one’s rating lands against every other rated Hallmark movie.

Rating 5.8 vs every rated Hallmark moviemedian 6.4This movie · 5.8567

Among the lower-rated Hallmark movies — the median is 6.4.

Where this one fits

The corners of the catalog Be My Valentine belongs to — handy if you’re after more of the same.

Lines worth quoting

The lines that stuck with us — the ones you’ll be repeating after the credits roll.

  • “Show her you love her on Valentine's Day: change the battery in her smoke detector.”
    — Dan FarrellDan trying to come up with a romantic fire safety slogan.
  • “I think we've even detected a pulse!”
    — Wendy ClarkWendy teasing Kate about finally being interested in a man again.
  • “I'm a firefighter, you know. I, uh, I fight... I want to fight for you.”
    — Dan FarrellDan's emotional realization about his feelings for Kate.
  • “I bought 1,000 shares of Apple back in '97 and held on to them.”
    — Kate BurlinghamKate explaining how she can afford the $5,000 auction bid.

Meet the characters

Who’s who before you press play. Nothing here gives the ending away.

  • Dan Farrell

    Lead

    Fire Lieutenant

    bravestoicdevoted fatherwidowed
  • Kate Burlingham

    Love interest

    Florist

    Romantic interest

    intelligentathleticindependentMBA holder
  • Gavin Malone

    Antagonist

    Hedge Fund Manager

    Ex-boyfriend and rival

    wealthypersistentregretful
  • Tyler Farrell

    Supporting

    Student

    Son

    tech-savvyromanticperceptive
  • Wendy Clark

    Supporting

    Florist

    Business partner and friend

    matchmakersupportiveopinionated

Questions people ask about Be My Valentine

Where can I watch Be My Valentine?

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How long is Be My Valentine?

Be My Valentine runs about 1 hour and 23 minutes, and was released in 2013.

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