Advice to Love By

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The premise

She believes love is a science, he works in a romantic advise column while being undercover. They both meet and try to balance the odds.

How unusual is it?

Middle of the road, with a twist — an enemies-to-lovers arc keeps it from being totally by-the-book.

Who’s in it

Behind the camera

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Wait, what?

The quirks and curveballs that make this one a little weirder than your average Hallmark. No spoilers, promise.

  • The protagonist views dating as a 'scientific endeavor' and uses a 'four-step compatibility test' on her date.
  • The love interest has a specific phobia of birds, describing them as 'tiny dinosaurs that sleep with their eyes open.'
  • The 'boop' rapport Nathan has with his barista to secretly pay for strangers' coffee.
  • A romantic judo date where the protagonist physically throws the love interest.

Every trope, all in one place

Here’s everything this one has going on, from the setting to the way it wraps up. Tap any of the 24 to find more movies that do the same thing.

How it all plays out

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Full story (spoilers)
The film opens with Kendall Turner promoting her books 'Dating and Mating in the Modern Age' and 'Swipe Left' on a morning talk show, where she argues that romance can be 'hacked' through data and logic. During the show, she mocks a rival columnist, 'Doctor Lovestruck,' for promoting 'fate and feelings' over science. Unbeknownst to her, Nathan Hart, a journalist at Pacific Sounder Magazine, is the man behind the Doctor Lovestruck persona. Nathan’s editor assigns him to write a profile on Kendall, leading to their first meeting at a bookstore signing. Kendall, feeling pressure from her editor Ella to produce a new book, decides to make herself the subject of her own research, using her interactions with Nathan to test a four-step compatibility process: signaling interest, connecting meaningfully, demonstrating worth, and establishing trust. Nathan and Kendall begin a series of dates that serve as a battleground for their opposing philosophies. Nathan attempts to charm her with 'grand gestures' and spontaneous acts, like paying for strangers' coffee, while Kendall analyzes his behavior through behavioral science. They participate in a variety of activities, including a judo class where Kendall accidentally throws Nathan, and a rock-climbing session where Nathan tries to push Kendall out of her comfort zone. Meanwhile, subplots involve Kendall’s sister Joy, an artist who finds love with a paramedic named Tyler through pure instinct, and Kendall’s editor Ella, who begins dating bookstore owner Grant after Kendall ironically advises him to 'do nothing' to win her over. As Nathan and Kendall grow closer, Nathan struggles with his secret identity, especially as his 'Doctor Lovestruck' column begins to improve because of Kendall's influence. Kendall eventually confesses to Nathan that she is writing a book about their dating experience, which she views as a gesture of transparency. However, the relationship hits a breaking point when Kendall discovers Nathan is Doctor Lovestruck. She feels betrayed that he wasn't honest about his identity while she was 'experimenting' on him. The conflict culminates at the Emerald City Book Gala, where Kendall is scheduled to speak. Nathan, realizing he has fallen for her, stages a 'Doctor Lovestruck' style grand gesture by hijacking the Q&A session to publicly apologize and declare his love. He admits that while they have different approaches, she is the best thing that ever happened to him. Kendall chooses to trust her feelings over her data, and the two reconcile with a kiss.

Beat by beat

  1. Opening

    Kendall Turner promotes her 'Science of Love' philosophy on TV and mocks the sentimental advice of the anonymous 'Doctor Lovestruck'.

  2. Inciting Incident

    Nathan Hart, the real Doctor Lovestruck, is assigned to write a profile on Kendall, leading to their first meeting at a bookstore.

  3. Midpoint

    Kendall decides to use Nathan as a 'research subject' for her new book, while Nathan uses their dates to test his romantic theories against her scientific ones.

  4. Rising Action

    The pair engages in a series of competitive dates, including judo and rock climbing, as they both begin to develop genuine feelings.

  5. Climax

    Kendall discovers Nathan's secret identity as Doctor Lovestruck and feels the trust between them is broken, leading to a temporary split.

  6. Resolution

    At the Emerald City Book Gala, Nathan makes a grand public declaration of love, and Kendall chooses to embrace her feelings over her data.

24 tropes in one movie

We counted 24 distinct Hallmark tropes packed into this one — a genuine greatest-hits reel.

How it stacks up

Where this one’s rating lands against every other rated Hallmark movie.

Rating 5.9 vs every rated Hallmark moviemedian 6.4This movie · 5.9567

Among the lower-rated Hallmark movies — the median is 6.4.

Where this one fits

The corners of the catalog Advice to Love By belongs to — handy if you’re after more of the same.

Lines worth quoting

The lines that stuck with us — the ones you’ll be repeating after the credits roll.

  • “I believe the search for love is a scientific endeavor.”
    — KendallOpening the film during her TV interview.
  • “Doctor Lovestruck is Superman. I'm, I'm just Clark Kent.”
    — NathanExplaining his secret identity to his friend.
  • “Birds? They are tiny dinosaurs that sleep with their eyes open. They give me the creeps.”
    — NathanExplaining his specific dislike of birds during a date.
  • “That's just your vagus nerve responding to your brain processing anxiety.”
    — KendallDismissing the idea of 'butterflies' in the stomach.

Meet the characters

Who’s who before you press play. Nothing here gives the ending away.

  • Kendall Turner

    Lead

    Author and Love Expert

    AnalyticalSkepticalData-drivenCompetitive
  • Nathan Hart

    Love interest

    Journalist / Advice Columnist

    Love interest and profile author

    RomanticSecretiveCharmingSpontaneous
  • Joy

    Supporting

    Artist

    Sister

    IntuitiveEncouragingRomantic
  • Ella Karlin

    Supporting

    Book Editor

    Editor and friend

    ProfessionalSecretive about her own dating lifeSupportive

Questions people ask about Advice to Love By

Where can I watch Advice to Love By?

Advice to Love By is available via Philo, YouTube TV, and Hallmark+ Amazon Channel. Streaming options change often, so check current availability before settling in.

How long is Advice to Love By?

Advice to Love By runs about 1 hour and 24 minutes, and was released in 2021.

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