A Soldier's Love Story

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The premise

Romance blossoms between a soldier and his pen pal's mother when he returns home.

How unusual is it?

Honestly? Not very — and that's the charm. It plays the hits, which is exactly the point for a cozy night in.

Who’s in it

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Wait, what?

The quirks and curveballs that make this one a little weirder than your average Hallmark. No spoilers, promise.

  • The 10-year-old son has an unusually high level of psychological insight into his mother's romantic life, essentially acting as her relationship counselor.
  • The grandmother uses 'God's plan' as a justification for almost every plot convenience, including the arrival of a random soldier.

Every trope, all in one place

Here’s everything this one has going on, from the setting to the way it wraps up. Tap any of the 25 to find more movies that do the same thing.

How it all plays out

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Full story (spoilers)
The film begins with Dana Marshall and her ten-year-old son, Jared, moving from Iowa to California to live with Dana's mother, Louise, following a painful divorce. Jared is deeply unhappy, missing his friends and feeling abandoned by his father, Gil, who rarely returns his calls. At his new school, Jared's class is assigned to write letters to soldiers stationed in Bosnia. Jared writes to Sergeant Vince Carrera, sharing his struggles with baseball and his father's absence. Vince, who grew up in a similar situation, is moved by the letter and begins a correspondence. When Vince's unit returns to Fort Sebastian, just 25 miles from Dana’s home, he decides to visit Jared in person. The surprise meeting sparks an immediate connection, and Vince offers to coach Jared in baseball, specifically helping him train as a catcher. As Vince spends more time with the family, Dana begins to open up to the possibility of love again, encouraged by her mother’s faith-based wisdom. However, Vince carries trauma from his own past; his ex-wife left him during a previous deployment because she couldn't handle the distance. Despite their growing feelings, Vince and Dana go on a formal date to a Moroccan restaurant but are shadowed by the knowledge that Vince's time at home is temporary. When Vince receives orders for redeployment to Africa, the couple mutually decides to break up to avoid the pain of a long-distance military relationship, believing it is the 'selfless' thing to do for one another. Jared is devastated by the news and the impending loss of his mentor. On Jared's birthday, Gil fails to show up or call, but Vince leaves a thoughtful gift—a professional catcher's mask. Realizing how much they truly mean to each other, Jared writes a final letter to Vince explaining how miserable his mother is. Vince arrives at the house just before leaving, and he and Dana confess their love, realizing they are strong enough to survive the deployment together. The movie ends with a heartfelt goodbye at the bus, with the promise that they will remain a family through letters, emails, and video chats until his return.

Beat by beat

  1. Opening

    Dana and Jared move in with Louise; Jared struggles with the move and his father Gil's emotional absence.

  2. Inciting Incident

    Jared begins writing pen-pal letters to Sergeant Vince Carrera as part of a school project for soldiers in Bosnia.

  3. Midpoint

    Vince returns from Bosnia and surprises Jared; he begins coaching Jared in baseball and starts dating Dana.

  4. Complication

    Vince receives a Deployment Readiness Assessment, signaling he will be shipping out much sooner than expected.

  5. Climax

    Dana and Vince decide to break up to avoid the pain of deployment, but Jared writes a letter to Vince urging him to reconsider.

  6. Resolution

    Vince and Dana confess their love and commit to a long-distance relationship; the family says a hopeful goodbye as Vince deploys.

25 tropes in one movie

We counted 25 distinct Hallmark tropes packed into this one — a genuine greatest-hits reel.

How it stacks up

Where this one’s rating lands against every other rated Hallmark movie.

Rating 6.5 vs every rated Hallmark moviemedian 6.4This movie · 6.5567

Higher-rated than 56% of every rated Hallmark movie. The median is 6.4.

Where this one fits

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Lines worth quoting

The lines that stuck with us — the ones you’ll be repeating after the credits roll.

  • “I don't tell Him what to do. I tell Him what my problems are. And then I let Him come up with something to surprise me.”
    — Louise MetcalfLouise explaining her philosophy of prayer to Dana.
  • “You're right about it's tough growing up in a different place than your dad. I know. I was your age when my dad left my mom and we moved.”
    — Vince CarreraVince's first letter to Jared, establishing their bond.
  • “Dad ignores me and Vince doesn't. And he is your boyfriend.”
    — Jared MarshallJared confronting Dana about her feelings for Vince.

Meet the characters

Who’s who before you press play. Nothing here gives the ending away.

  • Dana Marshall

    Lead

    Draftsperson and Aspiring Architect

    ProtectiveResilientHard-working
  • Vince Carrera

    Love interest

    Sergeant First Class, U.S. Army

    Love interest and mentor to her son

    PatientHonorableAthletic
  • Gil

    Antagonist

    Ex-husband

    UnreliableNeglectfulSelf-centered
  • Jared Marshall

    Supporting

    Student

    Son

    SensitiveInsightfulDetermined
  • Louise Metcalf

    Supporting

    Retired

    Mother

    ReligiousWiseOptimistic

Questions people ask about A Soldier's Love Story

Where can I watch A Soldier's Love Story?

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How long is A Soldier's Love Story?

A Soldier's Love Story runs about 1 hour and 28 minutes, and was released in 2010.

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