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    To Have and to Holiday

    Not yet rated·2024·1h 24m·Christmas·Weirdness 4/10
    To Have and to Holiday poster

    At a glance

    4/10

    Mostly standard issue

    What bumps it up: Santa appears.

    Holiday
    Christmas
    Season
    Winter
    Setting
    Small Town
    Time period
    Contemporary
    Leads start as
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    Runtime
    1h 24m
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    The premise

    When Celeste gets engaged to Jason after just a few months of dating, her father--and the couple's would-be officiant, Pastor Mark--insists on putting them through a pre-wedding "boot-camp" filled with Christmas-themed challenges. As the ...

    Themes:holiday traditionsfamily approvalcommitmentcareer vs. lovesmall-town communityhonest communication

    How unusual is it?

    Middle of the road, with a twist — Santa himself keeps it from being totally by-the-book.

    Who’s in it

    Madeleine Arthur headshot

    Our Girl

    Madeleine Arthur

    as Celeste Palmer

    Robert Bazzocchi headshot

    Our Guy

    Robert Bazzocchi

    as Jason Arlington

    Alongside them

    • Kate Drummond headshot
      Kate DrummondJudith Palmer
    • Rosie Simon headshot
      Rosie SimonTracy Connors
    • Allegra Fulton headshot
      Allegra FultonSally Arlington
    • Karn Kalra headshot
      Karn KalraDean
    Show all 15 castShow fewer
    • Reid Price headshot
      Reid PriceTim Connors
    • Richard Jutras headshot
      Richard JutrasRobert Arlington
    • Eric Close headshot
      Eric CloseMark Palmer
    • Thelma Farmer headshot
      Thelma FarmerMichelle Ferris
    • Nora Sheehan headshot
      Nora SheehanMrs. Widowski
    • David Christoffel headshot
      David ChristoffelMailman Withers
    • Ann-Marie Kerr headshot
      Ann-Marie KerrLeanne McManus
    • James D. Hopkin headshot
      James D. HopkinHarvey Myman
    • Geneviève Steele headshot
      Geneviève SteeleMarina Gallivali (as Genevieve Steele)

    Behind the camera

    ShowHide

    Directed by

    • Stacey N. Harding headshot
      Stacey N. Harding
    • Grant Levy headshot
      Grant Levy
    • Dominik Rothbard headshot
      Dominik Rothbard

    Wait, what?

    The quirks and curveballs that make this one a little weirder than your average Hallmark. No spoilers, promise.

    • A pastor-run marriage bootcamp with scoring, surprise exercises, and competitive relationship games
    • A Christmas wedding that gets relocated after the church is damaged by a leak
    • A prolonged family and town obsession with things like snowman slalom, gingerbread houses, and "the nearly and newlywed game"

    Every trope, all in one place

    Here’s everything this one has going on, from the setting to the way it wraps up. Tap any of the 33 to find more movies that do the same thing.

    Setting2

    🏘️Small Town📍Other

    Time & season3

    ❄️Winter🎄Christmas🗓️Contemporary

    Premise2

    🏆Contest🤗Reunion

    Characters4

    👗Lead: Fashion Designer📣Love interest: Marketing/PR👶Cute kid🏠Returns home

    Conflict5

    👨‍👩‍👧Family Expectations👨‍👩‍👧Family stakes😠Disapproving parent🗺️Long distance💔An ex returns

    Romance5

    💕Start as already dating💕First kiss: early (first third)💓Instant attraction💗Love confession🎁Grand gesture

    Tone & quirks8

    🎬Light/Heartwarming🎵Musical element👨‍🍳Cooking scenes🧶Crafting scenes🎄Tree decorating❄️Snow activities💃Dance scene🎞️Montage

    How it ends4

    🎅Santa appears💒Wedding ending💋Ends with a kiss🤝Family reconciliation

    How it all plays out

    Already seen it, or just can’t wait? Open this up for the whole story, ending included.

    Full story (spoilers)
    Celeste Palmer comes home to Everly for the holidays after a temporary fashion job in New York turns into a larger life change than she expected. She has been staying with Jason, and the two try to make up for missing Christmas together with a frantic "60 minute Christmas" celebration before Jason joins her in town. Their relationship is warm and easy, but it is also very new, and both of them are already feeling the pressure of distance and uncertainty about what comes next. When Jason proposes, Celeste says yes immediately, but her father, Pastor Mark Palmer, is alarmed by how fast everything is moving. He and Mayor Judith Palmer insist on keeping the family and town traditions intact, and Mark turns the wedding into a three-week marriage bootcamp designed to test whether the couple is truly ready. The bootcamp includes awkward honesty exercises, gift questions, gingerbread-house planning, and communication games, all of which expose how little Jason and Celeste have actually discussed about the future. As the wedding planning accelerates, Celeste also gets pulled between her old life and her professional future. Her former fashion boss, Marina Gallavali, is impressed by the portfolio Celeste secretly submits and calls with a potential job offer, while Judith also floats the idea that Celeste could take over the family store in Everly. Jason supports her either way, but Mark worries that his daughter is making impulsive choices and that Jason is taking her away from the life he imagined for her. Tensions rise when Jason tries to help around town and with the wedding, but his efforts keep colliding with Mark's pride and control. A misunderstanding over the tree lights, a city-vs.-small-town clash, and a disastrous dinner party make Celeste feel caught between her father and her fiancé. She eventually confronts Mark, telling him that where she lives and who she marries are her decisions, and Jason temporarily steps back as the family struggles to sort out the emotional fallout. A turning point comes when Tracy goes into labor and Jason helps her in the middle of the chaos, proving his steadiness and care to the people around him. Mark finally admits that he has been projecting his fears onto Celeste and that he needs to give Jason a fair chance. Soon after, the church is found to have a serious leak and cannot be used for the wedding, so the town scrambles to relocate the ceremony to the Shore Club. Mark and the community rally to create a new celebration, and Celeste and Jason are married in a ceremony that honors both her family and their relationship. By the end, the couple is stronger because they have learned to talk honestly about their future instead of assuming they want the same things by default. Celeste embraces the possibility of a life in Everly and the possibility of returning to New York, while Jason proves he is fully committed to building a future with her wherever that may be. The movie closes with the wedding, the family reconciled, and Jason finally paying off his ridiculous bet in true Hallmark-fashion cheer.

    Beat by beat

    1. 1

      Opening

      Celeste returns home for the holidays with Jason, and the couple squeezes in a fast, over-the-top Christmas celebration before his departure and her family obligations make their uncertain future feel real.

    2. 2

      Inciting incident

      Jason proposes, Celeste accepts, and Pastor Mark reacts by turning the rushed engagement into a marriage bootcamp, insisting the couple prove they are truly meant for each other before he will officiate.

    3. 3

      Rising action

      The bootcamp begins with honesty drills, gift exercises, gingerbread-house planning, and family scrutiny, revealing how many practical details Celeste and Jason have not yet discussed.

    4. 4

      Midpoint

      Celeste learns that Marina Gallavali wants to talk about a job opportunity, while her mother also suggests she could run the family store, forcing her to confront whether her future is in New York or Everly.

    5. 5

      Conflict escalates

      Jason keeps trying to help the town and the wedding, but Mark continues to distrust the speed of the relationship; a major argument leaves Celeste feeling controlled and Jason feeling pushed away.

    6. 6

      Climax

      After Jason helps Tracy during labor and Mark admits he has been unfair, the church is found unusable because of a leak, forcing the family to rally around an alternate wedding venue at the Shore Club.

    7. 7

      Resolution

      Celeste and Jason marry in a heartfelt ceremony, Mark fully blesses the union, and the town celebrates as the couple heads into their future together.

    33 tropes in one movie

    We counted 33 distinct Hallmark tropes packed into this one — a genuine greatest-hits reel.

    Where this one fits

    The corners of the catalog To Have and to Holiday belongs to — handy if you’re after more of the same.

    • 🎄Best Hallmark Christmas MoviesIt is, of course, a Christmas movie.
    • 💍Hallmark Wedding MoviesWedding bells are involved.
    • 🧁Hallmark Baking & Cooking MoviesPlenty of time in the kitchen.
    • 🏘️Hallmark Small Town MoviesA classic small-town setting.

    Lines worth quoting

    The lines that stuck with us — the ones you’ll be repeating after the credits roll.

    • “60 minute Christmas!”
      — Jason ArlingtonHe launches a rushed, over-the-top Christmas celebration so he and Celeste can squeeze in holiday traditions before he leaves.
    • “You don't buy eggnog, you rent it.”
      — Jason ArlingtonHe jokes while drinking holiday eggnog at the tavern during the town festivities.
    • “I hate the hot chocolate.”
      — Mark PalmerHe finally confesses a secret during a private moment with Jason, revealing they are more alike than they seem.
    • “I know I wanna spend the rest of my life with her.”
      — Jason ArlingtonHe reassures Celeste's parents that he is serious about marrying Celeste despite the speed of the engagement.
    • “You may now kiss my daughter.”
      — Mark PalmerHe officiates the wedding and formally gives his blessing.

    Meet the characters

    Who’s who before you press play. Nothing here gives the ending away.

    • Celeste Palmer

      Lead

      Fashion designer

      talentedindecisiveaffectionatedrivenfamily-oriented
    • Jason Arlington

      Love interest

      Marketing executive

      Celeste's fiancé and romantic partner.

      supportiveconfidentspontaneousthoughtfuladaptable
    • Tim

      Comic relief

      Tracy's husband

      A friend and bootcamp rival who helps create comic chaos.

      goofysupportivecompetitiveearnestsilly
    • Mark Palmer

      Supporting

      Pastor

      Celeste's father and the person officiating the wedding.

      protectivetraditionalstubbornwell-meaningcontrolling
    • Judith Palmer

      Supporting

      Mayor

      Celeste's mother who helps manage the family and wedding.

      warmpracticalplayfulsupportivemeddling
    • Tracy

      Supporting

      Hairdresser / family friend

      Celeste's close friend and wedding helper.

      loyalhumorouspragmaticchaoticencouraging
    • Marina Gallavali

      Supporting

      Fashion executive

      Celeste's former boss and potential career opportunity.

      discerningambitiousprofessionalimpressedopportunistic
    • Dean

      Supporting

      Town resident

      Celeste's hometown ex-boyfriend and a lingering source of tension.

      awkwardfriendlywistfulhelpfultactless
    • Robert Arlington

      Supporting

      Volunteer worker

      Jason's father who arrives late but supports the wedding.

      cheerfulworldlysurprisingsupportivegood-natured
    • Sally Arlington

      Supporting

      Volunteer worker

      Jason's mother who helps welcome Celeste into the family.

      warmfunnyacceptingchattyloving

    Questions people ask about To Have and to Holiday

    Where can I watch To Have and to Holiday?

    To Have and to Holiday is available via fuboTV, YouTube TV, and Philo. Streaming options change often, so check current availability before settling in.

    How long is To Have and to Holiday?

    To Have and to Holiday runs about 1 hour and 24 minutes, and was released in 2024.

    Is To Have and to Holiday a Christmas movie?

    Yes. To Have and to Holiday is a Hallmark Christmas movie, set during the holiday season.

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