To Have and to Holiday

6.2/10 · 766 ratings20241h 24mChristmasWeirdness 4/10Bingo card

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The premise

When Celeste gets engaged to Jason after just a few months of dating, her father--and the couple's would-be officiant, Pastor Mark--insists on putting them through a pre-wedding "boot-camp" filled with Christmas-themed challenges. As the ...

How unusual is it?

Middle of the road, with a twist — Santa himself keeps it from being totally by-the-book.

Who’s in it

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Wait, what?

The quirks and curveballs that make this one a little weirder than your average Hallmark. No spoilers, promise.

  • A pastor-run marriage bootcamp with scoring, surprise exercises, and competitive relationship games
  • A Christmas wedding that gets relocated after the church is damaged by a leak
  • A prolonged family and town obsession with things like snowman slalom, gingerbread houses, and "the nearly and newlywed game"

Every trope, all in one place

Here’s everything this one has going on, from the setting to the way it wraps up. Tap any of the 33 to find more movies that do the same thing.

How it all plays out

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Full story (spoilers)
Celeste Palmer comes home to Everly for the holidays after a temporary fashion job in New York turns into a larger life change than she expected. She has been staying with Jason, and the two try to make up for missing Christmas together with a frantic "60 minute Christmas" celebration before Jason joins her in town. Their relationship is warm and easy, but it is also very new, and both of them are already feeling the pressure of distance and uncertainty about what comes next. When Jason proposes, Celeste says yes immediately, but her father, Pastor Mark Palmer, is alarmed by how fast everything is moving. He and Mayor Judith Palmer insist on keeping the family and town traditions intact, and Mark turns the wedding into a three-week marriage bootcamp designed to test whether the couple is truly ready. The bootcamp includes awkward honesty exercises, gift questions, gingerbread-house planning, and communication games, all of which expose how little Jason and Celeste have actually discussed about the future. As the wedding planning accelerates, Celeste also gets pulled between her old life and her professional future. Her former fashion boss, Marina Gallavali, is impressed by the portfolio Celeste secretly submits and calls with a potential job offer, while Judith also floats the idea that Celeste could take over the family store in Everly. Jason supports her either way, but Mark worries that his daughter is making impulsive choices and that Jason is taking her away from the life he imagined for her. Tensions rise when Jason tries to help around town and with the wedding, but his efforts keep colliding with Mark's pride and control. A misunderstanding over the tree lights, a city-vs.-small-town clash, and a disastrous dinner party make Celeste feel caught between her father and her fiancé. She eventually confronts Mark, telling him that where she lives and who she marries are her decisions, and Jason temporarily steps back as the family struggles to sort out the emotional fallout. A turning point comes when Tracy goes into labor and Jason helps her in the middle of the chaos, proving his steadiness and care to the people around him. Mark finally admits that he has been projecting his fears onto Celeste and that he needs to give Jason a fair chance. Soon after, the church is found to have a serious leak and cannot be used for the wedding, so the town scrambles to relocate the ceremony to the Shore Club. Mark and the community rally to create a new celebration, and Celeste and Jason are married in a ceremony that honors both her family and their relationship. By the end, the couple is stronger because they have learned to talk honestly about their future instead of assuming they want the same things by default. Celeste embraces the possibility of a life in Everly and the possibility of returning to New York, while Jason proves he is fully committed to building a future with her wherever that may be. The movie closes with the wedding, the family reconciled, and Jason finally paying off his ridiculous bet in true Hallmark-fashion cheer.

Beat by beat

  1. Opening

    Celeste returns home for the holidays with Jason, and the couple squeezes in a fast, over-the-top Christmas celebration before his departure and her family obligations make their uncertain future feel real.

  2. Inciting incident

    Jason proposes, Celeste accepts, and Pastor Mark reacts by turning the rushed engagement into a marriage bootcamp, insisting the couple prove they are truly meant for each other before he will officiate.

  3. Rising action

    The bootcamp begins with honesty drills, gift exercises, gingerbread-house planning, and family scrutiny, revealing how many practical details Celeste and Jason have not yet discussed.

  4. Midpoint

    Celeste learns that Marina Gallavali wants to talk about a job opportunity, while her mother also suggests she could run the family store, forcing her to confront whether her future is in New York or Everly.

  5. Conflict escalates

    Jason keeps trying to help the town and the wedding, but Mark continues to distrust the speed of the relationship; a major argument leaves Celeste feeling controlled and Jason feeling pushed away.

  6. Climax

    After Jason helps Tracy during labor and Mark admits he has been unfair, the church is found unusable because of a leak, forcing the family to rally around an alternate wedding venue at the Shore Club.

  7. Resolution

    Celeste and Jason marry in a heartfelt ceremony, Mark fully blesses the union, and the town celebrates as the couple heads into their future together.

33 tropes in one movie

We counted 33 distinct Hallmark tropes packed into this one — a genuine greatest-hits reel.

How it stacks up

Where this one’s rating lands against every other rated Hallmark movie.

Rating 6.2 vs every rated Hallmark moviemedian 6.4This movie · 6.2567

Higher-rated than 28% of every rated Hallmark movie. The median is 6.4.

Where this one fits

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Lines worth quoting

The lines that stuck with us — the ones you’ll be repeating after the credits roll.

  • “60 minute Christmas!”
    — Jason ArlingtonHe launches a rushed, over-the-top Christmas celebration so he and Celeste can squeeze in holiday traditions before he leaves.
  • “You don't buy eggnog, you rent it.”
    — Jason ArlingtonHe jokes while drinking holiday eggnog at the tavern during the town festivities.
  • “I hate the hot chocolate.”
    — Mark PalmerHe finally confesses a secret during a private moment with Jason, revealing they are more alike than they seem.
  • “I know I wanna spend the rest of my life with her.”
    — Jason ArlingtonHe reassures Celeste's parents that he is serious about marrying Celeste despite the speed of the engagement.
  • “You may now kiss my daughter.”
    — Mark PalmerHe officiates the wedding and formally gives his blessing.

Meet the characters

Who’s who before you press play. Nothing here gives the ending away.

  • Celeste Palmer

    Lead

    Fashion designer

    talentedindecisiveaffectionatedrivenfamily-oriented
  • Jason Arlington

    Love interest

    Marketing executive

    Celeste's fiancé and romantic partner.

    supportiveconfidentspontaneousthoughtfuladaptable
  • Tim

    Comic relief

    Tracy's husband

    A friend and bootcamp rival who helps create comic chaos.

    goofysupportivecompetitiveearnestsilly
  • Mark Palmer

    Supporting

    Pastor

    Celeste's father and the person officiating the wedding.

    protectivetraditionalstubbornwell-meaningcontrolling
  • Judith Palmer

    Supporting

    Mayor

    Celeste's mother who helps manage the family and wedding.

    warmpracticalplayfulsupportivemeddling
  • Tracy

    Supporting

    Hairdresser / family friend

    Celeste's close friend and wedding helper.

    loyalhumorouspragmaticchaoticencouraging
  • Marina Gallavali

    Supporting

    Fashion executive

    Celeste's former boss and potential career opportunity.

    discerningambitiousprofessionalimpressedopportunistic
  • Dean

    Supporting

    Town resident

    Celeste's hometown ex-boyfriend and a lingering source of tension.

    awkwardfriendlywistfulhelpfultactless
  • Robert Arlington

    Supporting

    Volunteer worker

    Jason's father who arrives late but supports the wedding.

    cheerfulworldlysurprisingsupportivegood-natured
  • Sally Arlington

    Supporting

    Volunteer worker

    Jason's mother who helps welcome Celeste into the family.

    warmfunnyacceptingchattyloving

Questions people ask about To Have and to Holiday

Where can I watch To Have and to Holiday?

To Have and to Holiday is available via fuboTV, Philo, and Hallmark+ Amazon Channel. Streaming options change often, so check current availability before settling in.

How long is To Have and to Holiday?

To Have and to Holiday runs about 1 hour and 24 minutes, and was released in 2024.

Is To Have and to Holiday a Christmas movie?

Yes. To Have and to Holiday is a Hallmark Christmas movie, set during the holiday season.

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